How to become successful, faster than you think!
Many of my clients are asking me: ‘What does it take to be successful?’ and I always answer them: “Can you identify what success means to you?’, because everybody has their own window of the world where they put in their ideas, their goals, their strategies etc. It's very difficult to identify what success actually means as we all put a different meaning to it. Some will say I am successful when I am a millionaire, others will say when I get that promotion and some people might say I am successful when my kids are successful.
In NLP we are making use of certain techniques, that will enable you to become successful, to turn sadness into happiness, to remove procrastination, phobias and much more in minutes!
People often think that it takes a lot of hard work and dedication to become successful, and actually it usually does, but there are ways to make this process much quicker than you have ever thought possible.
The power of Modeling excellence
When you are growing up, everybody will tell you: ‘Go to the best schools to learn, to develop yourself’ and of course there's nothing wrong with it however this is not the fastest way to ensure you get the best out of yourself, your career and your relationships. There are other ways to enhance your skills and speed up your success formula. Why would you waste tons of money, time and energy on all these books, courses and trainings on self- help, management etc if this has all been done before? We don't have to reinvent the wheel! There are many successful people in the world that have done all the hard work for you, spend all their time, money, energy in becoming successful and the only thing you have to do is simply model their actually model their behaviors, their strategies, the way how they talk, the way how they learn.
This is where NLP can help you to achieve whatever it is that you want and we are here to help you become better day by day, step by step.
The NLP communication model
To become successful, we need to learn how to communicate properly with everyone around us.
Communication is not only about the words that we use, it also involves our body language, our emotions and our behavior.
Our brain consists of several parts, in NLP we are mainly focused on the conscious mind and more specifically in the sub-conscious mind. The sub-conscious mind is the place where we regulate and store our past experiences, where we attached emotions to events and where we send information to our nervous system with which behavior connects to that particular event.
During any particular moment of the day, we are processing about 11 million bits of information per second. If we would have to organize all this information, we would be busy with just one impression for the entire day!
That’s where our brain steps and filters the information by deleting, distorting and generalizing information. The brain adds emotions, checks if what we experience is in line with our values & beliefs, it attaches meta- programs etc. Out of all this information about 134 bits are actually processed and connected. This we call Internal Representation. Once we have connected this to our Internal Representation System, we go into a certain state.
And this is where the magic starts to happen!
If we control our state, we control our model of the world and we are able to easily influence and connect with everyone around us. We will come back to the importance of ‘State’ in a little while.
The state is followed by the physiology signals we send out to our nervous system, whatever we think off, be it positive or negative, happy or sad, our body has a ‘language’ for it stored deep inside our subconscious mind, this is also known as ‘Body Language’.
In the end, once this is all processed, usually in a split second, we end up with a certain behavior towards the external event we just witnessed.
Knowing how our brain works will give you the edge over others, as you are now able to connect with them on a much deeper level than you would usually do while using your conscious mind. Permanent change happens in the subconscious!
Control your state, control your world!
One of the most important stepping stones towards success, is to be in the right state of mind. Imagine yourself going for that very important meeting, preparing yourself for an interview or that moment where you walk on to the pitch to play that final game, and you start to feel anxious and insecure, are you prepared enough? Are you capable of handling this? Will you succeed? The good news is, you ARE in control and you CAN change these doubts in a more positive and excited state in a matter of minutes! However, it’s not just only being in the right state of mind that allows you to become successful, or to be a more likeable person, more understandable and more attractive to others, not just in business but also your private life.
Besides creating that winning state, you have to align your body as well to make this feeling extremely powerful and successful.
Have you ever seen and believed someone, when you ask them how they feel, and they say I am feeling great, but unconsciously you can sense this is not true? That’s because they don’t control their physiology!
Once you are able to connect both your mind and your body, this is where the power towards change and success happens!
How do I get into that winning state: Anchoring
I’m sure that you're wondering now, how do I get into that state of success, the state of feeling happy or any other state you want to be in right now?
Probably the most powerful technique that you can learn, is a technique that all the big marketing companies are using for ages.
It happens when you are watching TV, listen to the radio or even when you walk the streets.
When you hear certain jingle on the radio, or when you see a certain logo, before they mention any name, we already know what is. That is the power of Anchoring.
Imagine if you can do this for yourself with any kind of feeling or state that you want to be in, at any given time, how powerful you will be in achieving all your goals.
In one of my recent trainings I guided the participants through the Anchoring process, and they were all extremely impressed and some even shocked with the power that Anchoring has and how they could use this instantly to become more motivated, happier, more powerful or any state that they chose.
What’s next?
If you want to become more successful today, you can contact me now directly and for the first five readers of this post who reply, I will offer a free session on how to anchor any state immediately and guide you on your way to success.
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